My definition of a Gold digger

I jokingly asked one of my female friends to hook me up with a friend of her's that I saw on a pic with her. She said plainly that I don’t have a chance and that I don’t have anything that she would be interested in me offering her. I was astounded and replied and listed what I had to offer. Not impressed, she then asked if I had a car and a house and if I had a successful career.

I calmly gave her an instant reply and asked if her friend had a car, a house and had a successful career. She said that didn't matter and I told her plainly that her friend was a Gold digger.

My definition of a Gold digger?

“When a woman whose base standard for what a man (she would want to be in a relationship with) should possess is way beyond or drastically exceeds what she currently has”.

Therefore most women are Gold diggers!

Because no woman be trying to get with no “scrub” or “broke fella” when they themselves are in the same scrub/broke boat!

Think about it and be honest with yourself. How could it be fair or rather how can in make any logical sense, that a woman who has not acquired neither their ideal career, a car and a house want or deserve a man who has established all of the above for himself. What does she bring to the table? How does she or can she fulfill him as a man (besides sexually of coursewhich isn’t lasting)? And because of that lack of fulfillment the man would not be happy in the relationship and it will go sour! Only the woman enjoys fulfillment and that isn’t a healthy relationship. Ponder on that…

Furthermore if a man who is in a situation like that “demands” that his woman cook, wash, clean, iron and have sex with him when her wants I don’t think that it is unreasonable. He is merely trying to cash in on what he paid for. And in my opinion he is well within his rights to do so.

Like should be with Like.

Couples around the same financial and emotional level with each other will be better off in the long run. I intentionally said emotional level because some women can be emotional and mental Gold diggers too! Gold digging is not only about money but most women forcefully try to extract emotions from a man that sometimes he may not be ready for. Buy hey de pussy nice! So man in his weakness will succumb to a woman’s demands.

The problem is that women want it all right now and they want a man to provide it all right now! Sounds pretty lazy and selfish and even evil if you ask me. Why not go out and get your own, blaze your own trail and not rely on a man for things that are well within your reach if you put out the effort.  See it every day…man has car woman uses man who has car to do her bidding. Pick me up nah… Let’s go here… I wanna go beach etc. Ummmmm get your own damn car! But of course they have no ambition of doing such. I admire women who do not rely on men financially or use them for their assets and what he can do for you because women do that every day.

Why not grow with a man and be successful together? Help each other progress, support each other and reap the mutual benefits together. Yeah it would take a while longer but you've earned it!

I can go on and on about this but I’ll close with this. The selection process of a woman for a man is flawed because she is not able to truly connect and fulfill the needs of the type of man she desires. So women… Stop the gold digging and putting pressure on a man financially. There are a lot of ambitious guys out there who will get there some day who deserve a chance. Furthermore get your own! Make your own money and support your own damn bad habits! Drive yourself to the beach, buy your own make up, take yourself shopping, take yourself to dinner or to the club and until you can do all of that on your own shut the hell up! Let us guys grow and develop just as you grow and develop and don’t put us down.

Real Talk. If you don’t like it your eyes are closed you can ignore it. If you have an open mind I hope I sparked some level of positive thinking.